If your spouse has already left you, REFUSES to go to counseling, is no longer "in love"
with you or has already asked/filed for divorce, as long as you are 100% committed
and willing to do anything to save your marriage, then here's how you can...

Unlock the Secret To Single-Handedly Bring Your Marriage Back From The Bring Of Divorce So You Can Finally Become a Happy, Fulfilled and Loving Family Again

 

If You're Struggling In Trying To Reconnect With Your
Spouse...and Want To QUICKLY OVERCOME What's Really Holding You Back From The Marriage You Deserve...

...Then You're About To Discover How You Can Create
The Compassionate, Loving Marriage You've Always
Hoped For WITHOUT Your Spouse's Participation - Even
if You've Tried Every Other Marriage Solution in the Book
and STILL Can't Seem To Get Through To Your Spouse!

Finally, you can get control of your life...take the uncertainty out of your future...win over your spouse...and PROVE to your spouse that your marriage IS worth saving... when you take advantage of this simple, yet proven system you won't find anywhere else.

(Warning: this is NOT a typical marriage support system.)

 


 

"Back in the 90's I was suffering MISERABLY in a loveless marriage. I needed a way to reduce the stress, anxiety and tension in my marriage...

...Not because I was devoted to my wife, but because I needed to maintain my own SANITY."

"My wife didn't believe in divorce...but at the same time, she told me I could leave her...in a body bag!

Needless to say, I set out on a mission to find a REAL solution to our ongoing struggles. And after 27 years of misery - I finally found it.

Today, my wife and I have been happily married for 34 years...and we're closer than ever.

How'd I do it?

Click The "PLAY" Button Below To Discover the Single Biggest
Insight That Served as a "Turning Point" In My OWN Marriage
...

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Here's an Email I Received Recently From
One of My "Honor Students" Who After Just
4 Days, Saw Positive Changes In His Wife...

"Larry,

I can't help but be amazed at how this program has helped me eliminate negative feelings. As a result, my care and concern for my wife is now 100% genuine.

When she snapped 6 months ago I knew instinctively I should be strong and supportive, at times I did well, but eventually my negative emotions would drive me to do or say something regrettable; in short, I was a pin ball.

On Sunday, after only 4 days of consistently doing the program my wife said, "Well Roger, you've kept my interest for 14 years, usually I'd get tired of a guy in about 2 weeks....that must say something about you. You must be the only guy that can handle me. So after we officially split up, you'll have to live close by...so the kids can see you."

She even calls me more often now just to talk. Larry, I'm not going to suggest you are a genius, although you may be, but I do think you have a gift or you've been enlightened in some way because the EC program is the ONLY approach that works although it is completely illogical.

I almost wrote counter-intuitive but deep down it is intuitive, not logical or instinctual, but my gut tells me it is right. Being for things instead of against things, attracting my wife instead of chasing her.

My kids are happy, I'm genuinely happy and I feel a deeper understanding of my wife. Your advice to talk less and let her think more is what I will focus on. I'm amazed at the progress after such a short time of consistent effort, I'm becoming a better man and I thank you for that. I'll talk to you on Thursday."

- Roger Earnst
Salt Lake City, Utah

 

 

From: Larry Bilotta
Re: Transform Yourself...Transform Your Marriage

Dear Friend,

Let's get right to the point...time is of the essence here.

I want you to imagine right now, the WORST CASE scenario of a divorce. It's a bitter, long protracted and expensive battle between husband and wife that leaves you both out of money and emotionally drained.

Unfortunately, YOU'RE the ones who are getting off easy.

The true victims of this are your children. Everyone knows someone in their life who are the bi-product of a divorce. Even as adults, they still talk about the painful childhood they experienced watching their parents "battle it out"...

... and watching their parents use them as PAWNS, sometimes unknowingly, in this vicious battle, for control, just trying to win the divorce.

PLEASE, don't let this happen to you and more importantly, DON'T let it happen to your children.

You need this information now. And if you use the methods I'm going to show you, you won't have to worry about a divorce tearing your family apart, bit by bit.

Even in the most EXTREME situations, where one spouse has gone FAR beyond the Point Of No Return, the methods I can teach you will allow for your divorce to be as painless as humanly possible and DRASTICALLY reduce if not completely eliminate the negative consequences that your current situation has on your family, specifically your children.

Quite often, my students tell me that my materials are what turned a bad situation, into a good situation, that they not only grew from, but that helped ultimately bring them and their children together closer as a family.

Listen, I KNOW what you're going through because I've been there before.

You want to save your marriage. You want to set a positive example for your children instead of leading them to believe divorce is the answer and the "easy way out" of marriage problems.

In the beginning of your marriage, you assumed your feelings for each other would last with whatever effort came natural to you. You thought that was enough and any obstacles would just "work themselves out".

Like millions of married couples before you, you believed that marriage would bring you that "everlasting feeling of love ".

But to your astonishment, your spouse's feelings for you suddenly disappeared.

It's As If One Day Your Marriage Was Fine And The Next...It Was Over!

Then suddenly, like waking up from a coma, you realized you DO love your spouse and you would do anything to keep your marriage together!

You've researched the internet for hours looking for marriage help and you've most likely seen the pattern. Everything is built around what to say, what to do and what you should stop doing. It's all action driven.

But if you've been following me for long, you know that being married to an adult from a troubled childhood is a whole new ball game. The conventional marriage techniques don’t work with them.

Now you are awake, you know what's going on, you want a fulfilling marriage to the person who matters most to you.

You want to be a family again. And now you can.

Right now... I'm going to give you access to the concepts, tools, and methods that can and will make that happen for you.

Like many other men who suddenly realize their marriage is on the verge of divorce, one of my honor students (named Mike) had NO idea how discontent his wife was before she dropped the "D-bomb" on him.

Mike's wife was adamant about divorce and she was ready and willing to move on.

Because of this disturbing news, Mike was an emotional wreck and as a result, he pushed his wife even FURTHER away from him.

But today, because Mike knows the secrets of becoming an Environment Changer, he can finally think clearly, and in just 1 month, his wife has shifted her mindset from "it's over"...to "give me some time to think thinks through".

For Mike, this was an exciting step in the right direction because his wife is very stubborn and set in her ways. As Mike puts it, his wife has "NEVER changed her mind in their 16 years of being together. "

Today, Mike's Wife is Now Talking About Future Plans in Their Life TOGETHER, Rather Than Preparing For Her New Life AFTER Divorce.

But don't take my word for it, here's Mike's story (in his own words)...

My name is Larry Bilotta, and no matter what numerous stressors and obstacles you've endured in your marriage...it IS possible to turn your marriage around WITHOUT your spouses participation...

  • Infidelity
  • Lack of communication
  • Money problems
  • Brink of divorce
  • Sexless marriage
  • Trust issues
  • Jealousy
  • In-law issues
  • Anger or control issues
  • Emotional affair
  • Alcohol addiction
  • Boredom
  • Grown apart
  • Nothing in common

That's right. Despite what most people think, it only takes ONE to heal a marriage.

I'm living PROOF of this. If I can live happily with my wife who, by the way, I still have little to NOTHING in common with, then there's no reason YOU can't win over your spouse too.

What this means to you...

This Has a DIRECT IMPACT on YOU...

After working with thousands of couples over the past 15 years, I’ve worked with couples and individuals from every walk of life who have endured some seriously painful obstacles that literally RIPPED their family apart.

I’ve gotten to know them – and watched them pick up the pieces and fix their marriage all on their own.

But one of the reasons these particularly strong individuals are so successful in maintaining a level head no matter WHAT comes their way....is because their primary focus is NOT on behavior, but instead on "what lies beneath" their behavior, and what drives them to UNKNOWINGLY push their spouse further and further away.

Back when I was looking for some sort of relief in my marriage, I would have killed for some kind SOLID of support system...someone I could talk to about what to do in my specific situation.

And that’s why I’m inviting you to pull up a chair and join me in my highly successful Environment Changer program.

The premise of the program is this...

"Transform yourself...transform your marriage."

I'm a big believer that emotional intelligence is the one skill that can completely change your life. Sounds dramatic, I know. But I wouldn't be saying it if I haven't seen it (and DONE it) first-hand.

As you join me in my Environment Changer program, I'll teach you how to become a MASTER of your emotions. And believe me...there is a difference between people who are EFFORTLESSLY happy in marriage and those who struggle day in and day out, to make things work.

Effortlessly happy couples grew up in stable, secure homes and as a result, they THINK, ACT, and RELATE to each other DIFFERENTLY than we do...and they have a strong, loving and emotionally secure marriage to show for it.

But don't take my word for it, listen to what these Environment Changers have to say after completing the program.

Karen from North Carolina saw DRAMATIC results in both her and her husband's lives that she wasn't able to acheive with traditional marriage counseling and other marriage help.
Bill from Brookfield, Wisconsin learned that he first needed to make a change in himself, before he can positively impact his marriage.
Jesse Rivera from Washington used the insights he learned in the Environment Changer program and as a result, his wife has slowed down the process of divorce.
David shares some of the insights he learned in the program and how this impacted his marriage.

Don from Australia no longer feels depressed and has lost 6 1/2 lbs in 1 week because he learned to transform himself through the Environment Changer program!

"My parents have seen an improvement in me and they always say especially my Mum "The American man is really helping you get out of this depression that you have had for such a long time."

My psychologist that I see on a weekly basis cannot believe the strides, yes strides, in the way that I have improved. She keeps asking me "What book have I being reading?" She is so impressed in how level headed, composed I have become and how I analyze things better and see things through a different perspective. I did have a grin on my face because now I have the tools!!

I have been going to the gym to lose weight. As I have told you I have put on 10kg also due to the anti depressants. I currently weigh 98kg and that’s too much. I now train much harder and I have lost 3 kg (approx. 6 1/2 lbs) in one week and that is because now I am much happier.

I use my new tools several times a day and I bring my kit to work and practice. I know in time it will become like second nature and the goal I want to achieve is to be a great student or should I say an honor student. All these positive things is because I have found you Larry and I want to thank you for it because in such little time, I have seen changes in me."

- Don Ramell, Perth Australia


Kathy learned how to avoid getting sucked into the "matrix affect" of living off of negative feedback and victimization that goes hand in hand with divorce.

"I am 40 years old with 4 small children: 10, 8, 5, and 3. In November 2008 I was planning a move to another part of the country with my husband of 14 years (a man I have known for 22 years) when the worst thing possible happened - he gave up on our marriage and our family.

I was in shock - I did not realize it at the time. I began to research what I could do since now he lived over 900 miles away from us. This was a man that I did not know how to communicate with anymore - it was very scary for me and the children.

I contacted Larry and when he called me back, that was the start of a new life for me. He was the first person I ever spoke with who could see me for who I am inside and he saw me as a GOOD person. He also knew my husband just like I did and could explain things that I could never put my finger on as to the big picture.

Larry gave me the tools to look at life differently. It was okay to be a human but there was a way not to get sucked into the matrix affect of living off of negative feedback or victimization.

I found a way to look at divorce differently and in doing so I am changing the way people and my children respond to me. I now have friends that I never knew I had - I have a village that has surrounded my family who support me - life is funny and fun!

I have found my friends, many who have PhD's in human services, using Larry's tools that I have incorporated into my daily life and motto to explain things to colleages and children!

My husband and I are still separated for now but someday that will change. The children and I have learned that we still love this person who is so angry with me. We recognize that in each of us shines a beautiful light that we can share with everyone we come in contact with - it starts with me - I am an Environment Changer."

- Kathy Williams

Wouldn’t you like to do the same?

This is the time to see what you're made of....it's about helping YOU realize you've finally found yourself and what you can learn... and who you can become... by learning from MY struggles, successes and failures you too can transform yourself from the inside out...

...so that one day, when you're together with your spouse sitting with friends and family...they'll be wondering exactly what you did to make such a dramatic change in your marriage.

I know people from my past see my wife and I together these days and they're always in utter disbelief.

Forget The Past - Right Now, You Can Overcome Your Negative Programming...and It's EASIER Than You Might Think.

Were you born into a house where your father did not have a strong presence in your life because he was "just kind of there", non-existent, or abusive, neglectful...or a combination of all three?

Did either of your parents feel they had their own lives to live and ignored you as a result?

Were your parents fearful and worried people who always predicted disaster for themselves and for you?


If you answered "yes" to any of the above questions, unfortunately, you're missing the key ingredient that is literally the foundation of ALL successful marriages. But all hope is not lost however. What IS important to keep in mind right now is this...

The house we are “dropped into” is NOT our choice.

In fact, there are so many WRONG ways to raise a child that MANY people are raised in “Chaos homes” that produce troubled children (and troubled adults).

Did YOU Grow Up In a Chaos Home?

Chaos homes are created when parents who have never dealt with their own Chaos childhood, raise their own children…only to give them the same treatment that THEY were given as a child.

It is a sad but true fact that Chaos homes produce Chaos Kids.

And unfortunately, Chaos Kids have marriage trouble.

I know this first-hand because I was a Chaos Kid who married a Chaos Kid. This is the reason I lived 27 years in marriage Hell.

In fact, here's even more proof...

I Recently Conducted a Study Where I Spoke By Phone With 210 Troubled Couples.


I discovered that 93% of those marriages had either one or BOTH spouses who grew up in Chaos Kid homes. 

Only 7% of the struggling couples consisted of TWO individuals from good homes.

If YOUR marriage is in trouble, chances are, you share something very similar with these couples - ONE or BOTH of you are "Chaos Kids".

So What Is a Chaos Kid? And What Does This Mean For Your Marriage?

If you've ever said to yourself, "This is not the man/woman I married!"? then chances are very high that you married a Chaos Kid. You might even be one yourself!

A Chaos Kid can be recognized in a marriage when a troubling event takes place that causes the spouse to "snap". (Quite often this happens when the troubled spouse is around 30 to 40 years old.)

This traumatic event could be:

  • A lost job
  • A parent moves in
  • A sick child
  • A depressed spouse
  • An addiction
  • An affair
  • A move across five states, etc.

When this troubling event arrives in your life, something I call the "Chaos Engine" is triggered in the brain of that spouse.  This Chaos Engine is actually a set of programs installed in the spouse's brain during their first ten years by their parents.

When the Chaos Engine is turned on, you could say that "all hell breaks loose" because that's how it feels.

This event then causes a dramatic change in the Chaos Kid's behavior that pushes them to recreate what happened in their first ten years.


In essence, the Chaos Kid is trying to recreate what was "normal" when they were a kid.

And when a child was raised in chaos, that is what they will try to recreate.

This could involve irrational behaviors such as:

  • Having an affair
  • Frequently staying up late and going out to bars
  • Spending money foolishly, etc.
  • Taking off on a trip without notifying anyone

Throughout the first ten, critical years of a child’s life, the “programs” that children receive from their parents affect them for the rest of their lives.

In the case of a child who was raised in a stable, secure home, for the rest of their lives, they will find that they naturally gravitate towards successful choices in their marriage, social life and career.

Since I was not raised in this sort of home, it was in the 27 years of struggling in my own marriage years that I found the solution to repairing the damage I received from growing up in a Chaos home and turning my life into something with purpose rather than continued chaos.

And now it's time for you to do the same...


I'm Proud To Introduce To You My
Environment Changer Program



It's Your SHORTCUT To Becoming a Better Spouse.

While you may be jaded by the sheer number of courses, marriage counselors and so-called "experts" on the internet who claim to know the "secrets" to a happy marriage, rather than focusing on "outward" behaviors, you need to go deeper...MUCH deeper than that if you want to make a difference in your marriage.

Trying to change your behavior when you're dealing with trust issues, jealousy and resentment is like putting a band-aid on a BROKEN BONE.

Changing your behavior is just addressing what's on the surface of your problems. It might work for a little while but sooner or later, your negative feelings will get the best of you and you'll fall back into your old habits.

It just doesn't work.

But Contrary To Popular Opinion, You CAN Change People For The Better Or Worse.

Here's PROOF...

You've already seen your marriage destroyed...right? You've watched your spouse change the environment from good to bad. Without knowing it, you may have changed the environment from GOOD to BAD.

For example:

A Negative Environment: "That room was so thick, you could cut it with a knife."

A Positive Environment: "That guy can really light up a room".

In both situations, other people can feel the mood in the room. They were influenced by the feeling that person created.

They became like the mood and feeling of that room.

You can change the environment in your marriage if you have the knowledge and skill to change how your spouse feels. And once you know how to do this, you'll be able to do it over and over again.

If you want to make a change, once and for all, that will affect you in a positive way for the rest of your life...then join me today.

Here's how this works...

Twice a week, for four weeks, you'll speak with myself or one of my Marriage Translators, ONE-ON-ONE over the phone for 8 private, 60 minute phone sessions.
Before each call, you'll have a specific set of assignments you'll need to complete before your next call.
Then together, you and your Marriage Translator (or myself) will go over your assignments where you will have the opportunity to ask any questions you have about your assignments in addition to questions about new situations that came up, or things that have happened in the past. All calls are 100% confidential and are never shared with any other person.

And speaking of confidentiality, you don't have to worry about a mysterious envelope being shipped to your home that your spouse might pick apart and criticize you for reading. All your materials are digital so that you can download them to your computer, whether you're at home or work.

We Won't Be Focusing On Theory...Everything You'll Learn Is Practical, Actionable Insights You Can Immediately Apply To Your Marriage.

I figure you’re just like me… you want simplicity and useful information. You don't want useless advice that will only be a temporary solution to a permanent problem.

This is what works...the PROVEN TECHNIQUES that my successful Environment Changer program students use each and every day to wake up with a smile instead of an instant barrage of stress and anxiety about the past, present and the future.

If I was in your situation right now, I'd probably want to know the same things you want to know:

  • How is it possible to make a difference in my marriage when my every attempt to be nice is met with ANGER, criticism and rejection?

  • How is it possible to restore the love and intimacy in my marriage when my spouse doesn't even WANT to be married to me anymore?

  • My spouse is involved in an affair and says that it's over because s/he no longer has feelings for me. Is this permanent?

  • My spouse and I have very little contact. How is it possible to positively influence him/her when we barely even talk?

  • My spouse has already filed for divorce, isn't it already too late?

The answers to these questions can be found in one of the first steps in the program that involve a sort of "re-education", where students learn what's REALLY behind their spouses' new found drive to leave the marriage.

(HINT: It's NOT what you might think!)

It involves a SERIOUS shift in thinking so you're no longer focused on all the little details that do nothing but riddle you with anxiety and worry, dramatically decreasing any chance you have of restoring your marriage back to the way things were when you first met.

You'll be getting LIVE access to me for a full 8 hours (plus email support) so you can get all your questions answered. But bottom line...

You Will NOT Go Through This ALONE

Because right now, what you should NOT do - is be all alone in this. I will be there for you EVERY step of the way.

If you have a specific question, I'm just an email away.

If you get stuck, I'll help you through it.

If you need encouragement, inspiration or support, I'm there for you.

So what kind of results can you experience when you learn the "secret art" of emotional intelligence through my Environment Changer program?

Have a look at these amazing success stories...

  • Jill Wheeler spent her entire life trying to find ways to "overcome" the intense memories of pain and loneliness that engulfed every fiber of her being. Jill never felt good enough to be cared for so she went from relationship to relationship believing she deserved to be abandoned and beaten. As a child, Jill believed the beatings and rages meant love but she couldn't see beyond that because she felt rage was safe and calm was bad.

    Then she met a kind hearted man who became her husband. After 17 years of marriage, it became difficult for Jill to hold back the rage she had insider her. Then after multiple neck surgeries from an injury she received at the hands her father during her late teens, the pain became so great, she let anger replace her every emotion in life.

    She yelled at her husband all the time, told him how unhappy he made her and tried to leave him, but he begged her to stay. Jill was existing on fear, guilt, shame, anger and resentment when finally it became too much for her husband and he left.

    After proceeding forward in an attempt to kill herself, Jill contacted me for help. When Jill discovered the secret of controlling her emotions, she finally felt a beaming sense of hope that replaced the guilt that once dominated her every waking moment.

    She shared with me in a heartfelt letter that she had woken up for the first time in her life truly smiling because she finally felt internal peace because now she is free, happy, content, excited, sleeping well and laughing a true laugh again.

    Emotional intelligence literally gave this woman the happiness that 25 years of therapy told her was NOT possible.

  • Matt Gabhart, like many men, was shocked when his wife one day left him for another man. With a short attention span, Matt needed a solution that was simple, direct and was something he could actually do, not just a bunch of theory.

    By mastering his emotions, Matt became a completely transformed man from the inside out which allowed him to change the course of his life as a husband, a man, a dad and even in his career where he has taken a more confident turn.

  • After going through a period of 4 weeks of hell in her marriage, Rachel M. no longer lets her husband's moods determine her own and is a much happier person because she no longer lets her emotions run her life.

    Her new focus each day is to inject as much warmth, love, sincerity, and kindness into her home; to create an atmosphere that her husband will look forward to coming home to and a wife that he will enjoy spending time with.

    Rachel now sees that she (and she alone) has a tremendous amount of power in her household; all of it, in truth and she is working on becoming such a powerful force of good that no evil can withstand it. She shared with me in an email one day that she is becoming a better woman and it's only getting easier.

Join me today and never again look at yourself, your marriage and your life the same way again!

Let me be clear about what this program is not...

  • It’s NOT a bunch of the same old, overdone "feel-good" tips and advice like "plan a date night with your spouse" or "hold your spouse's hand because physical touch is important". You and I know that when your marriage is in trouble...you're WAAAY beyond "date nights" and "hand holding" because your spouse would totally oppose that sort of thing! That won't work for you now, that's for sure!

  • It’s also NOT the same "Mars and Venus" stuff you’ve heard rehashed a hundred times before. We all know men and women are different. But do you know the Ultimate Unmet Expectations of your spouse?

    I'll go way beyond the standard information and tell you what you need to DO and how you need to DO it, so you can finally get through to your spouse.

  • It's NOT information that you'll need your spouse to take part in...in order for it to work. As I said before, you can do this ON YOUR OWN. I've found that when a marriage is in trouble, there's a stayer (most likely you) and there's a leaver (your spouse). And if your spouse has already filed for divorce, she or he wants to get it done as quickly as humanly possible....and as a result, focusing on improving the marriage is certainly NOT on their radar.

  • It is NOT therapy where you'll end up talking endlessly about your troubling situations in order to vent.

  • It is NOT a program that is focused on what is WRONG with you.

  • It is NOT an emotionally draining program that digs into your “deep, dark past”.

  • It is NOT talking endlessly about your troubling situations in order to vent.

It IS however, a 100% POSITIVE experience.

My goal is to give you actionable assignments you can put to work in your marriage right away...and jump-start your progress in winning over your spouse!

Is This For ANYBODY?

No, not exactly. Unfortunately, not everyone has what it takes to save their marriage on their own. Here's what you need to succeed in this program:

  1. You need something to fight for.(Your children, your spouse, the fear that your kids will learn to solve marriage problems with divorce, etc)

  2. You need to believe against any odds that you will keep your family together
    (I'll be helping you with that.)

  3. You need to be a good student. That means:

    - You'll do everything that is assigned.
    - You'll apply what you're learning to real life.
    - You'll stay positive about your goals.

  4. You need to be 100% committed to healing your family

    - You keep doing the work in spite of reversals. (these must happen)
    - You accept that your family now depends totally on you to save it.

  5. You need to be private about what you are learning

    Do the work, don't talk about it. (You'll lose the strength of what you're doing by spreading it to people who don't understand what you know).

Bottom line, the material you'll learn in this program combined with ongoing live support for a FULL MONTH can change your life forever. Does this all sound a little to hard to believe?

It’s still true, even if it is hard to believe. I have so many examples I can give you of regular people from all walks of life who once struggled with ongoing stress, anxiety and anger issues that now have complete control and the new found ability to positively influence not only their spouse, but also their children, their friends and their family.

  1. "I just wanted you to know exactly how right you were about my wife's personality. You hit the nail on the head and woke me up to how blind I've been about what she's needed from me. I feel her coming back to me slowly but it is happening. I'm doing a lot better in sticking to everything you've taught me. I have far more control of my emotions than I ever have in my whole life because of your program. I've learned a lot more from you but these are the big things. I just wanted to share that with you."

    Scott Morin, Baton Rouge, LA


  2. "Larry, you know that I've always been success and achievement oriented in everything except my marriage. Through your program I realized I must become successful there too, in fact, I should have all along. Your course is so totally in keeping what I already believe, that I cannot change anyone, but everyone is influenced by the emotional condition I'm in. Through your course, you've given me a specific way to do that and now I'm able to live without all that anxiety, intensity and urgency that has stressed out me, my wife and our children for so long."

    Dan Dinucci, Millford, Massachusetts

  3. "As a real estate investor, I've always known that I need to stay in tune with what the market is doing, but I didn't apply that principal to understanding what my own wife of 11 years needed and wanted from me. I stayed away from the subject because so much of that self help stuff seems created for women. Your methods are simple, easy to understand and very practical. They make so much common sense, I can actually apply it without forcing my wife to do anything. Your methods make me feel far more in control of where our marriage is going without me trying to control her. So glad I found you Larry. The stress relief is well worth it."

    Steve Hill, Edwards Colorado

These are just a few samples of some of the REAL-LIFE success stories of regular people just like you who are positively influencing the people around them by gaining control of their emotions.

What Sets This Apart From ALL Other Marriage Help?

Becoming an Environment Changer is based on what you do "inside", NOT what you do outside.

You will learn how to change "the environment" inside you and finally begin to feel calm, secure, safe, important and valuable, possibly for the first time in your life.

You'll do this by discovering how to ELMINATE your negative feelings in sixty seconds with a tool kit I call the EC-7.

The EC-7 makes it possible for you to stop living like a pin ball, and instead, live like the pin ball machine.

Pin balls are easily bounced in any direction and cannot control where they are or what influences them.

The pin ball machine on the other hand, is solid, stands on four legs and influences where the pin ball is going.

Do you want to live like the pin ball, or the pin ball machine?

Becoming An Environment Changer will show you how to become the solid and stead pin ball machine.

It's Like Having Jedi Mind Control Powers

Sound like a stretch? Not as much as you might think!

Imagine this scenario for a moment....

Your Spouse DESPERATELY Wants To End The Marriage....

In an effort to subconsciously "reinforce" their decision to do so, your spouse decides to go on a shopping spree and MAX OUT the credit cards, head out to bars until all hours of the night, stay up late at night chatting with "friends" on the internet and above all else...TREAT YOU LIKE DIRT.

But you know....DEEP DOWN INSIDE... this is NOT the person you married!

This is the SAME man or woman you fell in love with. You've already devoted YEARS of your life to this person and produced several beautiful children that are counting on YOU to be their positive role model.

Now despite all these hardships....Imagine having the ability to genuinely FEEL calm, collected and comfortable NO MATTER WHAT COMES YOUR WAY even if...

...your spouse calls you every name in the book....

...you suspect an affair might be taking place...

...your spouse has left the household and is staying with someone else...

(This is NOT about acting or "faking" the way you feel, I'm talking about "turning off" your negative feelings just as you would a light switch.)

You see, if you still have contact with your spouse, it's not good enough to TELL him or her that you've changed.

YOU HAVE TO PROVE IT.

This is where the "Jedi mind powers" come in...

Put yourself in your spouse's shoes for a moment. How difficult would it be for your spouse to treat you this way when the "backlash" from this destructive behavior would be nothing but calm, collected, responses and UNCONDITIONAL love?

How hard would it be for you to TURN YOUR BACK on your family when the person you THOUGHT you despised most...has suddenly become the husband or wife you originally fell in love with?

Okay, so you don't have special powers, but it's logical right? But more importantly...IT WORKS.

Become a master of your emotions - Click Here!

How Will Your Life Change When You Possess This Incredible Skill That Most People Don't Even Know Exists?

What you'll be able to achieve in life when you're not held back by your own insecurities is entirely up to you.

Without that nagging little voice inside your head, you could confidently ask for a raise and excel in every area of life because finally, you won't have to listen to that "little voice" telling you you're not good enough.

Just think of the inner sense of peace you'll finally feel when you are no longer driven by fear, guilt or insecurities.
 
The best thing about this is that:

  • If you can apply what you learn, and stick with it...you can do it.
  • You don’t need your spouse's approval or participation for this...and if you need a little extra support along the way...I'm here for you.
  • It only takes ONE to make it work…

You Need The Ability To Follow The Steps

If you can welcome just the possibility that what I’m telling you is true...if you can move beyond that little voice inside your head that's telling you this won't work...JUST THIS ONCE...then just follow the steps, you'll start to see the possibilities:

  • You can win over your spouse once again and create the close, passionate marriage you've always wanted.

  • You'll literally start to FEEL better...healthier, and gain a new found sense of focus and confidence in life.

  • You'll look like the hero in your friends and families' eyes. They'll wonder what you've done to create such a dramatic turnaround in your marriage.

  • You'll feel the effortless sense of joy that seems to come naturally to children as you live the life you deserve.

  • And all it takes to get started down that road is this...

I want you to listen to your intuition on this decision. Calm yourself, get rid of all the thoughts and pictures of terrible scenes, past and future.

Think about NOW.

Your intuition will never steer you in the wrong direction. Problem is, most people in marriage turmoil never calm down and listen.

If your intuition confirms that becoming an Environment Changer is what you should do now, then I know you can save your Chaos Kid.

And yes, only you can. But you must know what you're doing and why. You need the skills.

I'll show you how to transform your marriage from what it used to be, into what it could be…something the two of you never even had before.

It could be that good if you follow what I'm about to teach you.

Without this know-how, more than likely, you'll wind up being nothing but a helpless bystander as your spouse, a Chaos Kid, tears your family apart only to join the numerous other families who will endure divorce this year.

So What You Can Expect After Completing the Program?

You'll have the ability to ELMINATE your negative emotions for the first time in your life. No one will be able to MAKE you feel bad any more. (Notice I said eliminate, not stuff.)

You'll have the ability change your environment and ultimately, change how your spouse feels about you - (You'll quickly begin to see encouraging signs that get better with time.)

Stressed relationships with your kids will change because you'll now have a far better way to understand them and how they are uniquely motivated. This will strengthen their bond with you.

You will NO LONGER suffer from sleepless nights, anxiety, stress, tension, resentment and mixed feelings that cause those "ups and downs" you've been experiencing for so long.

All your negative emotions will be replaced with a feeling of self- confidence and a warm feeling your spouse can feel from a distance.

And speaking of distance...

Even If Your Spouse Has Moved Far Away, The Distance Won't Matter

You'll be able to affect your spouse even half way around the world as other Environment Changers have with their spouses.

I will show you how to SIMPLIFY what a happy marriage is made of by giving you a step-by-step action plan that is meant to heal your marriage. You'll be working with someone who understands who you are, where you came from and what that means to you today. As we work together, you'll have concrete answers, not psychological theories and techniques.

Right now, your head is spinning. You have no one to make sense of what went wrong in your marriage and no plan on what you can do about it, but...

I must issue this warning to you again...

Do NOT "Think" yourself into this program!

Do NOT follow your feelings into it.

The only way you can be sure you'll succeed is by hearing your inner intuition confirm "YES, it's time for me to learn how to become an Environment Changer."

If you don't have that gut sense, that "inner sense", then this program won't work.

You'll fail, I'll fail and we both don't want that.

But before you sign up for this program, calm yourself down, listen to your intuition and follow it.

If you don't have that certainty, then don't sign up. If you do, then sign up here and let's get started.

If I am anything to you, I'm the man with the plan.

Still On The Fence About Joining The Environment Changer Program?

If your intuition is telling you YES, this program is for you, but something is still holding you back...and you need a little extra assurance...

Submit Your Second Chance
Story Below For a FREE 30 Minute
Consultation With Larry Bilotta...

So what's the catch?

Okay, there is ONE catch...you must watch the video below before submitting your story below.

This video will help you understand for the first time how your spouse's "programming" as a child (or your own) is wreaking havoc on your marriage today - and get a clear plan on what to do about it.

Click the play button below to watch the video. (NOTE: Clicking the play button below will open the video in a new window.)


So Why Am I Doing This?

Look, if you are serious about saving your marriage and you're willing to be a good student of what I teach, I CAN help you save your marriage, but I need to be sure.

What I need is for you to SHOW me that you are willing to do anything it takes to transform your marriage.

I need to see it in WRITING and on our phone call, I need to hear it in your VOICE. After working with couples for over 13 years, I'm able to identify people who are good students from those who are not.

So right now, scroll down and submit your entry below and if I choose your story, I will be speaking with you soon!

It's that simple.

If your spouse is willing to participate in this call, that would be great, but it is not necessary.

Here's You Can Expect From This FREE 30 Minute Consultation...

  • Gain a clear sense of what's really going on inside your spouse's mind when s/he says "I don't love you anymore" or when your spouse says s/he wants a divorce.

  • Discover the hidden cause of your indecisiveness. Very often you "can't see the forest for the trees". During our call together, you'll be able to see your situation from a whole new perspective.

  • Get a concise picture that will help you discover how your marriage got to the point it is at now, and what you may be doing (without even realizing it) to push your spouse even further away from you.

Here's What To Do Next...

In the form below, I'd like you to write to me and tell me why you think your marriage deserves a second chance.

Now, by all means, it doesn't have to be an essay.

In fact, I prefer you keep your "essay" short and to the point.

Just write in your own words why you think your marriage can benefit from this 100% FREE, no-strings attached, marriage-building call that can end your stress and worry by changing the course of your marriage.

IMPORTANT NOTICE: Any and all information you send to us is kept 100% CONFIDENTIAL. We respect your privacy and would never share your information with anyone, period.

I'd like you to think about the following points when writing your story...

1) What have you done to forgive your spouse for the way you have been treated?

2) What books, seminars or online marriage help have you used so far?

3) What is your greatest fear for your children, should a divorce take place?

4) If a divorce did take place, what specific event would be the most painful for you?

Take the First Step Towards Saving Your
Marriage By Submitting Your Story Today
!

IMPORTANT:

1. Once you submit your entry, look for an email from "Larry Bilotta". In the email, I will give you instructions on how to contact my assistant Kristen to set up the call.

2. Once we send you a confirmation that your entry was chosen, you will have 5 days to respond. If we do not receive a response from you within this time frame, the offer will no longer be valid.

(We've adopted this policy to give those who are serious about their marriage priority over those who are not. Thank you for understanding.)

Submit Your Second Chance Story Below
First Name *
Last Name *
Your spouse's first name *
Primary Email address *
What is your level of commitment to making your marriage work? *
Do you have children? *
YesNo
Are you outside the United States *
YesNo
What US Time Zone do you live in? *
If you are outside the US, what is the largest major city in your time zone?
Submit your second chance story here: *


Regardless Of How Your Spouse Feels Or Acts Right Now, Don't Believe That's Permanent

Even if there is another immoral person involved, as in the event of an affair, everything can change. I've seen it happen time and time again.

If it got bad, it can get good again. And if you're intuition confirms it, then YOU'RE READY!

Now Here's What Happens Next...

STEP 1:

Enroll in the Environment Changer Program below.

STEP 2:

When your order is confirmed, you'll be directed to a page where you can download the program agreement that you'l need to sign and fax back to us prior to the start of the program.

STEP 3:

My assistant/daughter Kristen will set up your online account and send you the information you'll need to complete your first assignment in the program.

STEP 4:

And finally, you'll need to contact Kristen to schedule all 8, 1 hour calls of the program. (We schedule them ahead of time to maintain a consistent learning atmosphere.) If you have an unpredictable schedule, we can make an exception to this rule however.

When You Enroll In The Program Today...You Also Receive These Free Bonus Gifts

FREE BONUS #1:

My 12-Week Audio Coaching Course...
"Softhearted Woman Hard World"

(A $57 value)

You’ll get a FREE copy of my breakthrough audio coaching course called 'Softhearted Woman Hard World’ that "spills the beans" about exactly what you need to do if you want to improve your self-esteem and feel more confident about yourself.

And by the way, men have proven to get just as much out of this course as women!

So whether you’re the kind of person who learns best through READING, LISTENING or DOING – you’ll quickly be able to ‘own’ these methods and use them to improve your marriage…and ultimately… get your marriage back to the way it was when you first met!

This step-by-step audio course is the result of my trial and error over the course of 27 years, in an attempt to improve my self esteem and get over my negative feelings.

In this book, you’ll discover:

  • How to become comfortable with who you really are and what is great about you for the first time in your life.

  • How to have more time to yourself WITHOUT feeling guilty.

  • How to get the most important people in your life to stop taking advantage of you and start appreciating and accepting you.

  • How to stop perceiving your spouse as a threat.

  • How to stop living your life in fear of being judged.

  • How to gain a sense of stability in the midst of the chaos in your marriage.

  • Understanding the key concepts in the Environment Changer program will be a breeze because you'll be able to refer to this audio course again and again.

 

FREE BONUS #2:

An Additional Month Of
UNLIMITED Email Support

(A $250 value)

Even my best students of the Environment Changer program experience a point in their marriage when they come across a situation where they're not exactly sure how to handle it.

With an additional FREE month of unlimited email support, if you get stuck, or have a question, help is literally just a click away.

The Environment Changer program offers you live, one-on-one support for a full month, and now you'll get an ADDITIONAL month of support by email as well to ensure your success in eliminating your negative feelings and restoring your marriage even further!

... you get BOTH of these valuable bonuses today 100% FREE!

Click Here To Claim Your FREE Bonuses Now!

“Okay Larry – How Much Is This Again?”

By now I know you can’t wait to enroll in the Environment Changer program so you can get your marriage back on track ASAP.

If you haven’t already scrolled down and found the price, I’ll tell you how much it is. But here's what I tell people who are considering the program when they ask about price...

IF YOU'RE READY for the program, it's a bargain.

If you're NOT ready for this program...it's a fortune.

It's something to think about.

Here's What You'll Receive When You Enroll In The Program Today Total Value
8 live, one-on-one hour long calls for a full month $997.00

FREE BONUS #1 : The 12-Week Audio Coaching Course: "Softhearted Woman Hard World"

$67.00
FREE BONUS #2: An Additional Month Of UNLIMITED Email Support $250.00
Total Value $1,314.00   

Get Everything Today For Just $997

Wait!

Get a $100 Rebate When You
Enroll In The Program Today!

Here's how...

As you know, I want to work individuals who consider themselves to be good students in my Environment Changer program.

And what I've found over the years, is that individuals who have gone through marriage counseling or purchased, live interactive marriage help are often some of my best students ever.

So for a limited time, I'm offering anyone who has purchased this kind of marriage help a $100 rebate* off the program.

Once we receive your order confirmation and proof that you qualify for this rebate, we will immediately credit $100 back to your credit card.

Click here to enroll in the Environment Changer program today before this offer expires!

*Proof of purchase will be required in order to receive your rebate.

 




Our Mutual Success Guarantee

The Environment Changer program is not "an answer" to your marriage problems (one among many), it is THE answer to why your life has come to this point. If this program doesn't solve your problem, nothing will.

I tell people who are considering this course, that by the time you reach the end of the month, you will have NO questions about people, and why they do what they do.

I'm going to guarantee 50% that I have the system that is THE answer to the problem that brought you to this point in your marriage.

And you'll be guaranteeing the other 50% that you will do what I am teaching. I cannot do what you do and you cannot do what I do, but together, we will make success possible.

- Larry Bilotta




This Is Your Chance For a Whole New Outlook On Life And On Your Marriage...Sign-up Today

Click the button below and join the rest of my students who have single-handedly transformed their marriage on their own.

$997 is a small price to pay your family, especially considering the personal, one-on-one attention you'll be getting in this program.

YES! I want to learn how to become an Environment Changer right away. I want to use Larry Bilotta's ideas, insights, and tactics to never again let my emotions run my life and ruin my marriage... starting right now without any delay.

  • I understand that by ordering today I will receive a FREE additional month of email support from Larry Bilotta.

  • I understand that I will be working with Larry for a total of 8 hours over the next month and that he will be there for me every step of the way.

  • I agree that I will be a good student of what Larry teaches and do everything within my power to apply Larry's teaching to my life and my marriage.

    Become an Environment Changer Today!


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To a less stressful and more fulfilling marriage,

Larry Bilotta

Larry Bilotta

P.S. - Remember, the longer you wait to take action, the greater the chance is of your spouse walking out that door never to return again.

P.P.S.  If your intuition tells you it's time to learn this, then you will not let what amounts to a single month's mortgage payment hold you back from the marriage you've always wanted. 

Join me now in my Environment Changer Program!

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