The First Sixteen Years Of Our Marriage Can’t Even Compare
To What It Is Now, Even The
First Couple Of Years.

We Now Go On Dates Together,
We Write Love Letters To Each
Other, We Have Meaningful Talks, We Touch A Lot, We Kiss A Lot...

...We Protect Each Other, We
Respect Each Other...We Have
Fun Together, And We Really Miss Each Other When We Are Apart.

"What has changed since we took the Marriage Lifeline Course…..Let me count the ways!

The Marriage Lifeline gave us the tools which taught us how to be married and really love it……even with our great differences. Our marriage took a 180 degree turn-around.

We now go on dates together, we write love letters to each other, we have meaningful talks, we touch a lot, we kiss a lot, we seek ways to fill each others core needs, we enjoy each other, we protect each other, we respect each other, we take pleasure in intimacy, we accept our differences, we have fun together, we encourage each other, and we really miss each other when we are apart.

Yes, we still have our tough moments, but we recognize them much faster and change our attitude much quicker. We no longer believe the lie that we would be better off with someone else. That’s a concept that now makes us laugh….my goodness, who could surpass what we have…Ha!

Our marriage is a partnership, growing towards true unity and we are becoming... the Fulfilled Couple!"

Ray and Dawn Shroeder

"We Are Far From Being Honor Students In Applying The Tools
We Learned In The Marriage
Lifeline, But That’s The Best Part About This Program, It Works
Even If You Don’t Do It Perfectly!"

"Before the Marriage Lifeline we each lived our own lives and co-existed, communication was sparse.

Our house was a disaster, piles everywhere, but I always left a nice, wide path for Johnny, in case we had a fire. I was trying to seek fulfillment in others because I wasn’t being fulfilled at home. Johnny kept his mouth shut and dealt with it. I had no idea how much my anger bothered him and he had no idea how much I needed his encouragement and inspiration in all areas of my life.

After the Marriage Lifeline, our lives are turning around, we are not perfect at using the tools, but we are gaining much ground. We are working together as a team now and are actually enjoying the feeling of oneness.

I no longer even want my husband to find a girlfriend so I can move on to greener pastures. Our communication has improved and we are trying to fulfill each others needs versus focusing on our own. Thank You to the Marriage Lifeline for helping us to minimize the chaos in our lives and bring us closer to oneness….how refreshing!"

John & Debbi Zimmerman
Merrill, Wisconsin

"At The End Of The First Phone
Call We Were Laughing And
Touching In Ways We Had Not
Done For A Long Time.

By The Time We Got Through
The Course Our Children
Noticed The Difference And
It Changed Them Too."

"My wife and I were ready for a divorce, we thought there was no way to get over the differences we had. The Marriage Lifeline was not counseling, we had tried that, this ended when we were being told we had to change, and usually magnified the differences.

The Marriage Lifeline is different in that we were taught about each others differences and what we could do to show the other partner how much we loved them. This course is about understanding what motivates your partner.

They call themselves marriage translators, which is a good way to put it as this course is about learning how to talk to each other without bringing up the past, the translator helps to communicate what each other is saying when you are trying to get over the hurdles that got you to the point of talking about divorce.

After completing the flag page I had a much better understanding of my wife, and myself. At the end of the first phone call we were laughing and touching in ways we had not done for a long time. By the time we got through the course our children noticed the difference and it changed them too. Before the course the kids had learned how to play my wife and I against each other.

Now our entire family, including the children that have left the nest are happier and have a better relationship with both of us.

I am thankful for the Marriage Lifeline and my wife and I are on our way to becoming a fulfilled couple."

Brian and Lori Stepanik

"Larry Showed Us How To Communicate With Each Other....Simply Stated, This
Program Saved Our Marriage."

“The Marriage Lifeline finally helped us know who we are. Our Translator showed us how to communicate with each other. This program helped us identify our greatest needs. Simply stated, this program saved our marriage.

It has made the emotional roller coaster seem like a logical ride down a calm stream.

We not only have great control over our feelings, we have a new outlook on life! We honestly believe that the Marriage Lifeline has made this complex world simple again. Thank you dearly.”

Dick and Geri DuBois

"We Finally Realized The Depth Of Our Despair And Pursued The Offer For The Marriage Lifeline. That Proved To Be Life Changing For Me And Transforming For Our Marriage."

"Our marriage was never what you would call good or strong. We had some nice moments, but overall it wasn’t very positive. We loved each other and both are from broken families and so we didn’t want to divorce because we know the pain it causes for our children if we did.

We had discussed divorce a couple of times in our marriage, then sought counseling and it would be okay for awhile. We both had some serious issues we were dealing with in our marriage. Both of us abused alcohol for many years and had other issues as well.

We finally realized the depth of our despair and pursued the offer for the Marriage Lifeline. That proved to be life changing for me and transforming for our marriage. It was because of the amazing transformational grace of God we received having gone through that program, which put a desire in me to become a Marriage Translator. So, after ensuring Jim was okay with me doing that, I began training last fall. Today, I have taken one crisis couple through the 8 phone calls and am beginning to work with 5 more. What a blessing from God to be able to give others new life in their marriage as we have been given."

Jim and Donna McCabe

"We Are Going From Living To Loving And From Having Sex To Making Love! Thank You For Showing Us a Whole New World."

It’s been several months since we completed our Marriage Lifeline and Mark and I had such an incredible weekend!

We actually enjoyed every minute of our time together. HOURS! (Yikes) of getting to "know" each other! We couldn't wait to get home and keep living it out!

I think for 11 years we both tried to love Heidi but didn't know how. Neither of us loved Mark. Sex was all about Mark and I was just something on the side once in awhile. Everyday life was all about me and the kids and Mark was just something on the side once in awhile. We are going from living to loving and from having sex to making love! Thank you for showing us a whole new world.

Mark & Heidi Mann
Ogema, Wisconsin

"Some Major Things Came to Light for Us During the Marriage Lifeline, Which in the Past Would've Probably Torn Us Apart for Good."

“When I made that first desperate call for help I was made to feel comfortable right away. The Flag Pages were extremely helpful to both of us. Some major things came to light for us during the Marriage Lifeline program, which in the past would have probably torn us apart for good. We are working with the tools, learning from them every day and becoming stronger. We have two beautiful children who need their Mom AND Dad to stay together. Thank you so much for helping us through this!”

RaNae Passehl

"The Marriage Lifeline Program Made it Possible for Us to...Truly ENJOY Each Other Instead of Simply ‘Surviving’ Our Life Together."

“We’re still married! The Marriage Lifeline program made it possible for us to make changes and decisions that let us truly ENJOY each other instead of simply ‘survive’ our life together.

Because of this program, our son has two parents who live in the same home and does not have to suffer the ravages of divorce.

How can we rate the value of the Marriage Lifeline except to say it is beyond value!”

Brian and Leah Limberg

"It's Amazing How (The Marriage Lifeline Tools) And Our Translator's Help Is Exposing Core Issues
That We Needed To See, Deal
With And Remove. Lifelong
Burdens Are Being Lifted."

"I came into marriage subconsciously believing that I had to defer my own needs but meet every one of my spouse’s needs.

I misunderstood many of my needs & feelings. I was clueless as to all the dynamics going on.

The last 10 yrs we had no sex because emotional problems were too difficult for me to manage. I felt frustrated, trapped, imprisoned and hopeless. I spent the last 20 yrs searching through books, counselors, advice, programs etc, and didn’t find the answer to why my life was a living hell; nor how to develop emotional & mental intimacy. I thought my husband Lou was the problem.

We’re slowly learning how to be a healthily married couple. It’s like building a house with a strong foundation. We are finally able to describe our needs and feelings without anger or defense. It feels like I‘m on a brand new road of life I didn’t find till I was 55. Lots of ah ha moments! There seems to be a healthy continual slow growing or maturing going on! I’m beginning to understand why everything I’d tried in the past hasn’t worked. We now have options, tools, hope & a positive view on life. Our hard work is beginning to get results and there’s a light at the end of our tunnel using Marriage Lifeline tools.

Lou & Florina Korf
Vancouver, Washington

“Larry Was Kind, Perceptive, Friendly and Professional. He Made Us Feel Comfortable Sharing With Him...Our Lives Will Be Forever Changed..."

Dear Larry,

"I didn't know where to start writing my comment because we have learned so much. You did an excellent job explaining things in a way we could understand. You are truly a brilliant man, creating this whole Marriage Lifeline Program. There isn't anything I think could be improved on in our opinion.

It is extremely difficult to find the words to express how the Marriage Lifeline program impacted our lives. Things we have never considered have affected our marriage, each step of the process and was so enlightening and thought provoking.

Larry not only helped our marriage tremendously, but we were changed individually as we discovered through his translating, so many cool insights to help us understand ourselves better.

Larry was kind, perceptive, friendly and professional. He made us feel comfortable sharing with him. As a result, our lives will be forever changed-so much for the better ! The Marriage Lifeline saved us."

Scott and Dawn Freeberg

"Marriage Lifeline Began With Showing Us, In A Very Positive
Way, How We Think Differently...
I Was Able To See Myself In A Different Light And Gained Self-Esteem In The Process."

"Marriage counseling told us what we each needed to do differently. I think we still had complaints because we each felt like we were the one doing what we needed to do and our spouse was not.

We received some instruction on how to treat each other but it seemed to require both spouses to be equally motivated and involved.

Marriage Lifeline began with showing us, in a very positive way, how we think differently (both from the aspect of our design and from our upbringing). Then we were given tools that were usable individually with immediate individual results (I was able to see myself in a different light and gained self-esteem in the process.)

Marriage Lifeline showed me the power I had to change the way I see things and thereby change my attitudes. It helped change my personal perspective first and then I was able to apply the same changes to my marriage and it didn’t require the same degree of participation from my spouse.”

Bob & Teri Werner

"I Feel That Your Program Did
More For Carla and I Than Any Counselor Could Have...

...The Knowledge of Our Inner Problems and The Issues Of
Accepting Each Other Have Been
Such a Startling Revelation..."

Hello Larry,

"I feel that your program did more for Carla and I than any counselor could have. It has been three months since we finished up our four weeks with you. We have had a few issues but the bottom line is that Carla is still here after 6 months. That’s a virtual record since the infidelity incident.

I must say that just the knowledge of our inner problems and the issues of accepting each other as good have been such a startling revelation for me and a big help for Carla. We are in a super place right now. I love just having her and she, much to my surprise, has started to open up to me in all honesty.

I was floored last night as she shared some very difficult self-honesty. I heard some very difficult things but felt like the destructive anger and resentment was all flowing away from me. It was an intensely warm and wonderful feeling. I wanted to just hold her, it was good stuff Larry. Good stuff!

I got my best friend back and that’s what I really needed, so there’s an update and another I.O.U. one. A great debt of gratitude and thanks for all you’ve done."

Jimmy Ranson
Everson, Washington

"We Never Would Have Believed that this Program Could Make Such a Dramatic Change in Our Marriage Relationship."

“Having gone through several other marriage programs with no results, we had given up all hope that we would ever have a marriage relationship beyond cohabitation for the purpose of raising our children.

We started the Marriage Lifeline program just as a gesture of commitment to each other. We never would have believed that this program could make such a dramatic change in our marriage relationship.

Through the tools used in the Marriage Lifeline program and the insight and skill of our Translator, we’ve been able to gain an understanding and appreciation of each other that would not have been possible otherwise.

We’ve learned the benefits of our differences and we now accept and celebrate them instead of fighting to change each other. Thanks to the Marriage Lifeline and our Translator, today we are enjoying the marriage we’ve always dreamed of.

It has been a blessing to us as well as our children. After all, it really is true…the best thing you can do for your children is to love your spouse. The Marriage Lifeline made that love possible.”

Robert and Sue Tillotson

BONUS #2: A FREE 60 Minute Follow Up Consultation Phone Call With Larry Bilotta!

(A $120.00 value!)

It's absolutely critical that you have someone with real-world experience let you know if you're headed in the right direction or for a train wreck.

Once you're exposed to all these powerful concepts, I KNOW that you’ll have no problem maintaining your new and improved marriage…BUT….just in case you do run into a few ‘snags’ in your marriage, you will receive a complementary follow up phone call with me on the second month following the Marriage Lifeline program.

That’s right. After you’ve completed the program…you’re not completely on your own yet.

I'm going to personally coach you through any lingering ‘difficulties’ or questions you have about your marriage…no matter how small they may be.

So to sum it up; you’ll have one month “on your own” and then the following month, I’ll ‘step back in’ and for a full 45 minutes over the phone, you’ll have a chance to ask me any questions that have been on your mind over the previous month ‘on your own’….or….if you don’t have any questions….I’m always more than willing to hear how your life has changed as a result of this program. :-)

The choice is completely up to you.

"...After Our First Marriage
Lifeline Call, My Husband...
Suddenly Looked at Me and Said "You Know I DO Love You"!!!

Oh My Gosh, I Thought to
Myself…I Was So Shocked…
This is Actually Working!!!

"It amazes me when I think about the amount of time we have "tried" to make our marriage work and never really got anywhere! When we hung up the phone after our very first Marriage Lifeline call, my husband walked into the room I was in, suddenly looked at me and said "You know I DO love you"!!! Oh my gosh, I thought to myself…I was so shocked…this is actually working!!! I can't even begin say how excited I am about this.

We've spent the last week laughing and talking and just getting along thanks to you and your Marriage Lifeline!

We even exchanged gifts for Valentine's day!
Things are just so wonderful - like they were long ago! I am feeling like a part of his life - a feeling I haven't had for several years. I can't even begin to thank you for everything this Marriage Lifeline has done.

Dennis actually trusted our Marriage Translator…with everything - not something I had seen him do with any other marriage counselors in the past. God bless you and the time you have devoted to us.”

Sue and Dennis Henschel

"At First I Was Very Reluctant About The Marriage Lifeline, But After Experiencing Just The First Call, It Really Made Sense And Proved To Show Exactly Who I Am."

"When our Translator explained my Flag Page, I was shocked because he was explaining to me that what everyone else had criticized, he told me were strengths.

I felt validated for the first time in years. Tim and I were not in marriage trouble, we were in marriage stagnation. We were just picking at each other in many little ways and it was draining the life out of us.

Going through the Marriage Lifeline has made it possible for us to ACCEPT our differences and actually ENJOY them. Now, rather than enduring our marriage, we actually enjoy it. Because of the Invisible Lifestyle tool, we finally understand why I was always yelling and Tim was always apologizing.

The insight this program gives couples is nothing short of astounding.

I would recommend this Marriage Lifeline to anyone, whether you are going through anything or not.

It is life changing because what you learn falls into other relationships. I look at things differently now because I know my actions are making an imprint on my children. I am feeling like I am living a more purpose filled life."

Mary and Tim Gorton

WOW! What An Eye Opener.
You Truly Laid Out a Road
Map of Success For Us...

..My Life Has Changed Dramatically By Recognizing How To Eliminate Those Past Pictures Of Failure
That Can Quickly Destroy
Our Relationships.

Paul and I Highly Recommend
Your Program To Everyone..."

"Paul and I just want to extend our gratitude to you for all you have done to assist us in having an “Extraordinary” relationship. We first learned about you through a mutual friend of ours, who suggested that we contact you for some extra insight as we prepared for our marriage. I am so glad we did!

Let’s just say, after having been married and divorced before and having gone through traditional counseling I wasn’t real fired up for more. Although, I knew I also wanted to do everything we could to give our marriage every advantage.

Well, that’s when we started talking with you. WOW! What an eye opener. You truly laid out a road map of success for us. From your invisible lifestyle techniques, Paul and I now have a much better understanding of where we are coming from based on how we grew up. More importantly, we increased our awareness of the enemy that lies within each one of us, and how to destroy it.

Through your exercises Larry, my life has changed dramatically by recognizing how to eliminate those past pictures of failure that can quickly destroy our relationships. Paul and I highly recommend your program to everyone even thinking about marriage or those unfortunate enough to be contemplating divorce.

The knowledge you provided us is priceless. Unfortunately, with any program once you have achieved the success you so desire we often tend to get complacent.

The techniques you taught us are not just a one time thing…it is necessary to use them everyday. Simply by increasing our awareness, being in a state of gratefulness and focusing on what we want has made all the difference in the world. Thank you!!"

Sincerely,

Paul and Tanya Sajdak

"This Week, (Five Months Since Finishing The Marriage Lifeline) Is Again THE BEST Weekend Of Our Relationship, We Had So Far."

"I have to tell you, Larry, this week, (five months since finishing the Marriage Lifeline) it is again new THE BEST weekend of our relationship, we had so far. New depth of acceptance, new simplicity and sincerity in our relationship, and new freedom and liveliness for Zaklina which has not happened before!

Part of it is of course the fact, that she successfully gave birth to our little sweet child and that she now is a mother too. But also in our relationship there is real openness happening!

I praise the Lord and am thankful for you and the knowledge we gained through your Marriage Lifeline program. It is completely practical and really working. We will be controlling our negative feelings with new motivation and strength from now on. May God bless you and strengthen you!"

Gorazd and Zaklina Andrejc
Slovenia, Europe