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From: Larry Bilotta Dear Friend, I want you to imagine right now, the WORST CASE scenario of a divorce. It's a bitter, long protracted and expensive battle between husband and wife that leaves you both out of money and emotionally drained. Unfortunately, YOU'RE the ones who are getting off easy. The true victims of this are your children. Everyone knows someone in their life who are the bi-product of a divorce. Even as adults, they still talk about the painful childhood they experienced watching their parents "battle it out"... ... and watching their parents use them as PAWNS, sometimes unknowingly, in this vicious battle, for control, just trying to win the divorce. PLEASE, don't let this happen to you and more importantly, DON'T let it happen to your children. You need this information now. And if you use the methods I'm going to show you, you won't have to worry about a divorce tearing your family apart, bit by bit. Even in the most EXTREME situations, where one spouse has gone FAR beyond the Point Of No Return, the methods I can teach you will allow for your divorce to be as painless as humanly possible and DRASTICALLY reduce if not completely eliminate the negative consequences that your current situation has on your family, specifically your children. Quite often, my students tell me that my materials are what turned a bad situation, into a good situation, that they not only grew from, but that helped ultimately bring them and their children together closer as a family. Listen, I KNOW what you're going through because I've been there before. You want to save your marriage. You want to set a positive example for your children instead of leading them to believe divorce is the answer and the "easy way out" of marriage problems. In the beginning of your marriage, you assumed your feelings for each other would last with whatever effort came natural to you. You thought that was enough and any obstacles would just "work themselves out". Like millions of married couples before you, you believed that marriage would bring you that "everlasting feeling of love ". But to your astonishment, your spouse's feelings for you suddenly disappeared. It's As If One Day Your Marriage Was Fine And The Next...It Was Over!Then suddenly, like waking up from a coma, you realized you DO love your spouse and you would do anything to keep your marriage together! You've researched the internet for hours looking for marriage help and you've most likely seen the pattern. Everything is built around what to say, what to do and what you should stop doing. It's all action driven. But if you've been following me for long, you know that being married to an adult from a troubled childhood is a whole new ball game. The conventional marriage techniques don’t work with them. Now you are awake, you know what's going on, you want a fulfilling marriage to the person who matters most to you. You want to be a family again. And now you can. Right now... I'm going to give you access to the concepts, tools, and methods that can and will make that happen for you. Like many other men who suddenly realize their marriage is on the verge of divorce, one of my honor students (named Mike) had NO idea how discontent his wife was before she dropped the "D-bomb" on him. Mike's wife was adamant about divorce and she was ready and willing to move on. Because of this disturbing news, Mike was an emotional wreck and as a result, he pushed his wife even FURTHER away from him. But today, because Mike knows the secrets of becoming an Environment Changer, he can finally think clearly, and in just 1 month, his wife has shifted her mindset from "it's over"...to "give me some time to think thinks through". For Mike, this was an exciting step in the right direction because his wife is very stubborn and set in her ways. As Mike puts it, his wife has "NEVER changed her mind in their 16 years of being together. " Today, Mike's Wife is Now Talking About Future Plans in Their Life TOGETHER, Rather Than Preparing For Her New Life AFTER Divorce.But don't take my word for it, here's Mike's story (in his own words)... My name is Larry Bilotta, and no matter what numerous stressors and obstacles you've endured in your marriage...it IS possible to turn your marriage around WITHOUT your spouses participation...
That's right. Despite what most people think, it only takes ONE to heal a marriage. I'm living PROOF of this. If I can live happily with my wife who, by the way, I still have little to NOTHING in common with, then there's no reason YOU can't win over your spouse too. What this means to you... This Has a DIRECT IMPACT on YOU...After working with thousands of couples over the past 15 years, I’ve worked with couples and individuals from every walk of life who have endured some seriously painful obstacles that literally RIPPED their family apart. I’ve gotten to know them – and watched them pick up the pieces and fix their marriage all on their own. But one of the reasons these particularly strong individuals are so successful in maintaining a level head no matter WHAT comes their way....is because their primary focus is NOT on behavior, but instead on "what lies beneath" their behavior, and what drives them to UNKNOWINGLY push their spouse further and further away. And that’s why I’m inviting you to pull up a chair and join me in my highly successful Environment Changer program. The premise of the program is this... "Transform yourself...transform your marriage."I'm a big believer that emotional intelligence is the one skill that can completely change your life. Sounds dramatic, I know. But I wouldn't be saying it if I haven't seen it (and DONE it) first-hand. As you join me in my Environment Changer program, I'll teach you how to become a MASTER of your emotions. And believe me...there is a difference between people who are EFFORTLESSLY happy in marriage and those who struggle day in and day out, to make things work. But don't take my word for it, listen to what these Environment Changers have to say after completing the program.
Wouldn’t you like to do the same?This is the time to see what you're made of....it's about helping YOU realize you've finally found yourself and what you can learn... and who you can become... by learning from MY struggles, successes and failures you too can transform yourself from the inside out... ...so that one day, when you're together with your spouse sitting with friends and family...they'll be wondering exactly what you did to make such a dramatic change in your marriage. I know people from my past see my wife and I together these days and they're always in utter disbelief. Forget The Past - Right Now, You Can Overcome Your Negative Programming...and It's EASIER Than You Might Think.
The house we are “dropped into” is NOT our choice. In fact, there are so many WRONG ways to raise a child that MANY people are raised in “Chaos homes” that produce troubled children (and troubled adults). Did YOU Grow Up In a Chaos Home?
Chaos homes are created when parents who have never dealt with their own Chaos childhood, raise their own children…only to give them the same treatment that THEY were given as a child. It is a sad but true fact that Chaos homes produce Chaos Kids. And unfortunately, Chaos Kids have marriage trouble. I know this first-hand because I was a Chaos Kid who married a Chaos Kid. This is the reason I lived 27 years in marriage Hell. In fact, here's even more proof...
So What Is a Chaos Kid? And What Does This Mean For Your Marriage? If you've ever said to yourself, "This is not the man/woman I married!"? then chances are very high that you married a Chaos Kid. You might even be one yourself! A Chaos Kid can be recognized in a marriage when a troubling event takes place that causes the spouse to "snap". (Quite often this happens when the troubled spouse is around 30 to 40 years old.) This traumatic event could be:
When the Chaos Engine is turned on, you could say that "all hell breaks loose" because that's how it feels. This event then causes a dramatic change in the Chaos Kid's behavior that pushes them to recreate what happened in their first ten years.
And when a child was raised in chaos, that is what they will try to recreate. This could involve irrational behaviors such as:
Throughout the first ten, critical years of a child’s life, the “programs” that children receive from their parents affect them for the rest of their lives. In the case of a child who was raised in a stable, secure home, for the rest of their lives, they will find that they naturally gravitate towards successful choices in their marriage, social life and career. Since I was not raised in this sort of home, it was in the 27 years of struggling in my own marriage years that I found the solution to repairing the damage I received from growing up in a Chaos home and turning my life into something with purpose rather than continued chaos. And now it's time for you to do the same... I'm Proud To Introduce To You My
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Twice a week, for four weeks, you'll speak with myself or one of my Marriage Translators, ONE-ON-ONE over the phone for 8 private, 60 minute phone sessions. |
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Before each call, you'll have a specific set of assignments you'll need to complete before your next call. |
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Then together, you and your Marriage Translator (or myself) will go over your assignments where you will have the opportunity to ask any questions you have about your assignments in addition to questions about new situations that came up, or things that have happened in the past. All calls are 100% confidential and are never shared with any other person. |
And speaking of confidentiality, you don't have to worry about a mysterious envelope being shipped to your home that your spouse might pick apart and criticize you for reading. All your materials are digital so that you can download them to your computer, whether you're at home or work.
I figure you’re just like me… you want simplicity and useful information. You don't want useless advice that will only be a temporary solution to a permanent problem.
This is what works...the PROVEN TECHNIQUES that my successful Environment Changer program students use each and every day to wake up with a smile instead of an instant barrage of stress and anxiety about the past, present and the future.
If I was in your situation right now, I'd probably want to know the same things you want to know:
The answers to these questions can be found in one of the first steps in the program that involve a sort of "re-education", where students learn what's REALLY behind their spouses' new found drive to leave the marriage.
(HINT: It's NOT what you might think!)
It involves a SERIOUS shift in thinking so you're no longer focused on all the little details that do nothing but riddle you with anxiety and worry, dramatically decreasing any chance you have of restoring your marriage back to the way things were when you first met.
You'll be getting LIVE access to me for a full 8 hours (plus email support) so you can get all your questions answered. But bottom line...
Because right now, what you should NOT do - is be all alone in this. I will be there for you EVERY step of the way.
If you have a specific question, I'm just an email away.
If you get stuck, I'll help you through it.
If you need encouragement, inspiration or support, I'm there for you.
So what kind of results can you experience when you learn the "secret art" of emotional intelligence through my Environment Changer program?
Have a look at these amazing success stories...
Let me be clear about what this program is not...
It IS however, a 100% POSITIVE experience.
My goal is to give you actionable assignments you can put to work in your marriage right away...and jump-start your progress in winning over your spouse!
No, not exactly. Unfortunately, not everyone has what it takes to save their marriage on their own. Here's what you need to succeed in this program:
Bottom line, the material you'll learn in this program combined with ongoing live support for a FULL MONTH can change your life forever. Does this all sound a little to hard to believe?
It’s still true, even if it is hard to believe. I have so many examples I can give you of regular people from all walks of life who once struggled with ongoing stress, anxiety and anger issues that now have complete control and the new found ability to positively influence not only their spouse, but also their children, their friends and their family.
These are just a few samples of some of the REAL-LIFE success stories of regular people just like you who are positively influencing the people around them by gaining control of their emotions.
Becoming an Environment Changer is based on what you do "inside", NOT what you do outside.
You will learn how to change "the environment" inside you and finally begin to feel calm, secure, safe, important and valuable, possibly for the first time in your life.
You'll do this by discovering how to ELMINATE your negative feelings in sixty seconds with a tool kit I call the EC-7.
The EC-7 makes it possible for you to stop living like a pin ball, and instead, live like the pin ball machine.
Pin balls are easily bounced in any direction and cannot control where they are or what influences them.
The pin ball machine on the other hand, is solid, stands on four legs and influences where the pin ball is going.
Do you want to live like the pin ball, or the pin ball machine?
Becoming An Environment Changer will show you how to become the solid and stead pin ball machine.
Sound like a stretch? Not as much as you might think!
Imagine this scenario for a moment....
Your Spouse DESPERATELY Wants To End The Marriage.... In an effort to subconsciously "reinforce" their decision to do so, your spouse decides to go on a shopping spree and MAX OUT the credit cards, head out to bars until all hours of the night, stay up late at night chatting with "friends" on the internet and above all else...TREAT YOU LIKE DIRT. But you know....DEEP DOWN INSIDE... this is NOT the person you married! This is the SAME man or woman you fell in love with. You've already devoted YEARS of your life to this person and produced several beautiful children that are counting on YOU to be their positive role model. Now despite all these hardships....Imagine having the ability to genuinely FEEL calm, collected and comfortable NO MATTER WHAT COMES YOUR WAY even if... ...your spouse calls you every name in the book.... ...you suspect an affair might be taking place... ...your spouse has left the household and is staying with someone else... (This is NOT about acting or "faking" the way you feel, I'm talking about "turning off" your negative feelings just as you would a light switch.) You see, if you still have contact with your spouse, it's not good enough to TELL him or her that you've changed. YOU HAVE TO PROVE IT. This is where the "Jedi mind powers" come in... Put yourself in your spouse's shoes for a moment. How difficult would it be for your spouse to treat you this way when the "backlash" from this destructive behavior would be nothing but calm, collected, responses and UNCONDITIONAL love? How hard would it be for you to TURN YOUR BACK on your family when the person you THOUGHT you despised most...has suddenly become the husband or wife you originally fell in love with? |
Okay, so you don't have special powers, but it's logical right? But more importantly...IT WORKS.
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What you'll be able to achieve in life when you're not held back by your own insecurities is entirely up to you.
Without that nagging little voice inside your head, you could confidently ask for a raise and excel in every area of life because finally, you won't have to listen to that "little voice" telling you you're not good enough.
Just think of the inner sense of peace you'll finally feel when you are no longer driven by fear, guilt or insecurities.
The best thing about this is that:
If you can welcome just the possibility that what I’m telling you is true...if you can move beyond that little voice inside your head that's telling you this won't work...JUST THIS ONCE...then just follow the steps, you'll start to see the possibilities:
I want you to listen to your intuition on this decision. Calm yourself, get rid of all the thoughts and pictures of terrible scenes, past and future.
Think about NOW.
Your intuition will never steer you in the wrong direction. Problem is, most people in marriage turmoil never calm down and listen.
If your intuition confirms that becoming an Environment Changer is what you should do now, then I know you can save your Chaos Kid.
And yes, only you can. But you must know what you're doing and why. You need the skills.
I'll show you how to transform your marriage from what it used to be, into what it could be…something the two of you never even had before.
It could be that good if you follow what I'm about to teach you.
Without this know-how, more than likely, you'll wind up being nothing but a helpless bystander as your spouse, a Chaos Kid, tears your family apart only to join the numerous other families who will endure divorce this year.
You'll have the ability to ELMINATE your negative emotions for the first time in your life. No one will be able to MAKE you feel bad any more. (Notice I said eliminate, not stuff.)
You'll have the ability change your environment and ultimately, change how your spouse feels about you - (You'll quickly begin to see encouraging signs that get better with time.)
Stressed relationships with your kids will change because you'll now have a far better way to understand them and how they are uniquely motivated. This will strengthen their bond with you.
You will NO LONGER suffer from sleepless nights, anxiety, stress, tension, resentment and mixed feelings that cause those "ups and downs" you've been experiencing for so long.
All your negative emotions will be replaced with a feeling of self- confidence and a warm feeling your spouse can feel from a distance.
And speaking of distance...
You'll be able to affect your spouse even half way around the world as other Environment Changers have with their spouses.
I will show you how to SIMPLIFY what a happy marriage is made of by giving you a step-by-step action plan that is meant to heal your marriage. You'll be working with someone who understands who you are, where you came from and what that means to you today. As we work together, you'll have concrete answers, not psychological theories and techniques.
Right now, your head is spinning. You have no one to make sense of what went wrong in your marriage and no plan on what you can do about it, but...
I must issue this warning to you again...
Do NOT "Think" yourself into this program!
Do NOT follow your feelings into it.
The only way you can be sure you'll succeed is by hearing your inner intuition confirm "YES, it's time for me to learn how to become an Environment Changer."
If you don't have that gut sense, that "inner sense", then this program won't work.
You'll fail, I'll fail and we both don't want that.
But before you sign up for this program, calm yourself down, listen to your intuition and follow it.
If you don't have that certainty, then don't sign up. If you do, then sign up here and let's get started.
If I am anything to you, I'm the man with the plan.
If your intuition is telling you YES, this program is for you, but something is still holding you back...and you need a little extra assurance...
Submit Your Second Chance
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1) What have you done to forgive your spouse for the way you have been treated? 2) What books, seminars or online marriage help have you used so far? 3) What is your greatest fear for your children, should a divorce take place? 4) If a divorce did take place, what specific event would be the most painful for you? |
IMPORTANT:
1. Once you submit your entry, look for an email from "Larry Bilotta". In the email, I will give you instructions on how to contact my assistant Kristen to set up the call.
2. Once we send you a confirmation that your entry was chosen, you will have 5 days to respond. If we do not receive a response from you within this time frame, the offer will no longer be valid.
(We've adopted this policy to give those who are serious about their marriage priority over those who are not. Thank you for understanding.)
Even if there is another immoral person involved, as in the event of an affair, everything can change. I've seen it happen time and time again.
If it got bad, it can get good again. And if you're intuition confirms it, then YOU'RE READY!
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Enroll in the Environment Changer Program below. |
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When your order is confirmed, you'll be directed to a page where you can download the program agreement that you'l need to sign and fax back to us prior to the start of the program. |
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My assistant/daughter Kristen will set up your online account and send you the information you'll need to complete your first assignment in the program. |
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And finally, you'll need to contact Kristen to schedule all 8, 1 hour calls of the program. (We schedule them ahead of time to maintain a consistent learning atmosphere.) If you have an unpredictable schedule, we can make an exception to this rule however. |
FREE BONUS #1: (A $57 value) You’ll get a FREE copy of my breakthrough audio coaching course called 'Softhearted Woman Hard World’ that "spills the beans" about exactly what you need to do if you want to improve your self-esteem and feel more confident about yourself. And by the way, men have proven to get just as much out of this course as women! So whether you’re the kind of person who learns best through READING, LISTENING or DOING – you’ll quickly be able to ‘own’ these methods and use them to improve your marriage…and ultimately… get your marriage back to the way it was when you first met! This step-by-step audio course is the result of my trial and error over the course of 27 years, in an attempt to improve my self esteem and get over my negative feelings. In this book, you’ll discover:
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FREE BONUS #2: (A $250 value) Even my best students of the Environment Changer program experience a point in their marriage when they come across a situation where they're not exactly sure how to handle it. With an additional FREE month of unlimited email support, if you get stuck, or have a question, help is literally just a click away. The Environment Changer program offers you live, one-on-one support for a full month, and now you'll get an ADDITIONAL month of support by email as well to ensure your success in eliminating your negative feelings and restoring your marriage even further! |
... you get BOTH of these valuable bonuses today 100% FREE!
By now I know you can’t wait to enroll in the Environment Changer program so you can get your marriage back on track ASAP.
If you haven’t already scrolled down and found the price, I’ll tell you how much it is. But here's what I tell people who are considering the program when they ask about price...
IF YOU'RE READY for the program, it's a bargain.
If you're NOT ready for this program...it's a fortune.
It's something to think about.
| Here's What You'll Receive When You Enroll In The Program Today | Total Value |
| 8 live, one-on-one hour long calls for a full month | $997.00 |
FREE BONUS #1 : The 12-Week Audio Coaching Course: "Softhearted Woman Hard World" |
$67.00 |
| FREE BONUS #2: An Additional Month Of UNLIMITED Email Support | $250.00 |
Total Value $1,314.00 |
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$997 is a small price to pay your family, especially considering the personal, one-on-one attention you'll be getting in this program.

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To a less stressful and more fulfilling marriage,
Larry Bilotta
P.S. - Remember, the longer you wait to take action, the greater the chance is of your spouse walking out that door never to return again.
P.P.S. If your intuition tells you it's time to learn this, then you will not let what amounts to a single month's mortgage payment hold you back from the marriage you've always wanted.
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